Social Loner | Lace Up Sweater and Duck Boots

Top: H&M || Bottoms: H&M jeans || Accessories: Kate Spade necklace, Tory Burch Robinson bag || Shoes: Sperry

Going off on my post on being an ambivert, I think I’m a social loner more than anything.  Case in point: When I was in school, I hated studying by myself in my dorm room because it was too quiet. I had to study in the library but once I was in the library, I would stare daggers at my friends who would see me and want to talk to me. I just wanted to be in a social environment...alone. Years later, I'm still the same way. I don't mind going out with my friends but I like being quiet and observing people when I'm out rather than actively participating in whatever my group is doing. I guess I just want to be invited to do things more than I actually want to participate. I'm complicated. 

Are there any social loners out there as well? How do you cope? Let me know in the comments!


  1. i just ordered my lace up sweater cant wait to style it! come check out my blog at i would love to hear your input xx toby

  2. I am more of an introvert, which at times can be kind of similar to how you describe yourself. However I do love quiet time, even when I'm with people. I'm one of the people that think there's not always the need to talk, and I actually really enjoy spending time with people not talking, just being in each other's company and silence falls. Some people hate it, but to me it's still sharing a special moment! :)
    Also, your jumper is really pretty - I love the colour and lace up detail!

    Julia x
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  3. I use to be a social loner buh am getting better as years roll by.. I love you handbag so cute.
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  4. So cozy, lady- you look super cute here!

    Le Stylo Rouge

  5. Definitely nothing wrong with alone time! Love those duck boots, so necessary these days. That slouchy sweater is perfect as well :)
    xo Annie
    New England Romance

  6. I feel like we're so similar haha! Love the sweater and outfit <3

  7. Loving the post! Have a wonderful weekend:)

  8. Dear Deborah,
    Such a cute look!
    I think people like you are very valuable for the society as you don't push yourself in the foreground but nevertheless enjoy the company of other people.
    For me it is difficult to say how am are as I like the company of other people (and this preferation grows the older I get) but I enjoy also time alone with myself.
    xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena

  9. That is a cute and cosy knit! Your boots look really practical for dealing with snow too.

    I prefer my alone time at home - although I do like people watching I'd rather skip an event and stay home to recharge :)

    Hope you are having a lovely weekend :)

    Away From The Blue Blog


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